Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear
In order to have the life, career, relationship and body you desire, you’re going to have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
It’s a law of the universe that the more you stretch to grow and expand, the more resistance you’re going to encounter pushing back against you. Like a plant trying to push through the earth to become an oak tree.
And the fear of having to do the things we don’t want to do, like getting up earlier in the morning, getting out of a bad relationship, changing careers, being sore from your workout – is what keeps us from achieving greater things.
I’m going to be honest with you right now and tell you that when you start working out, you’re going to be sore and in pain… but only at first.
And when you change your eating habits for healthier options, you’re going to be left feeling hungry and craving junk food… but only at the beginning until your body adjusts.
And when you start drinking the right amount of water to stay hydrated, you may hate the taste and have to pee every 15 minutes… but only for the first few days.
The biggest challenges are at the beginning and if you push through, you’ll be rewarded with the results on the other side!
Stay tuned for Fat Loss number 10 as it may create an “ah ha” moment for you!
P.S. If you want to take a challenge and push yourself to grow I have created the “6 Day to a Stronger Core Challenge” for you. You can take the challenge by adding your info here
Have you hydrated yourself today? You may recall that yesterday’s law of fat loss was all about staying hydrated to lose weight. If you missed it you can click here to read it.
Today’s post is a little different but I feel can make a difference in whether or not you stick to a fat loss program. I personally subscribe to this philosophy.
Here is law of fat loss #8.
Friends Make Fitness Fun
If you’ve always worked out alone, you’ve been making a huge mistake.
Not only is it infinitely more enjoyable to exercise with a friend, but having someone else there will actually push you to subconsciously perform better.
When I share this Law Of Fat Loss with people, many times the response is, “But my friends don’t like working out…”
If this is true, I got you covered. I work with many friendly, likeminded people just like you and I’m happy to introduce you into a few future workout buddies.
I guarantee you’ll have more fun and enjoy working out more than you ever have before!
Also, if you would like to join an online fitness tribe that has a group of fitness enthusiasts you can join for FREE at www.allabouthealthandfitness.com. I hope to see and interact with you in the group.
I hope after yesterday’s post you understand the importance of resistance training and you are now going to add it your weekly workout routine. Also, if you read all the way to the end of that post you saw I teased you with Fat Loss Law #7. So what was I talking about?
This is going to be short and sweet by here you go.
You Must Be Properly Hydrated To Lose Fat
Do you know how long we (humans) can live without food?
It’s about 40 days for the average person.
It’s about 4 days.
Water must be pretty important right?
Not only is water crucially to our survival, but our bodies are mostly composed of it.
If you aren’t properly hydrated, then your organs, hormones and cells can’t do their job properly and that means your body is not likely to release it’s fat storages and build lean muscle tissue.
Additionally, when you’re dehydrated, you’ll actually feel hungrier, even if you just ate.
Here is a sneaky little fat loss hack I share with my clients:
When you’re feeling hungry or about to eat, drink 16 ounces of room temperature water (2 cups) and wait 10 minutes. Miraculously, most of your hunger will go away and you’ll be able to make better choices!
I know you have heard all this before but the power of hydration is real and if you really want to transform your body and health start making hydration a key component of your fat loss approach.
P.S. The next Law of Fat Loss pretty much sums up my philosophy.
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If you recall way back in the beginning where I talked about 21 Laws of Fat Loss I said that they are not in any particular order. However, if you read yesterday’s post about the law of compounding if you start implementing each one of the previous 5 things start to compound over time and can create a huge transformation in your life!
Strength Training Benefits Everything
I often get asked, what’s the best workout for fat loss?
10+ years ago, it was believed that in order to lose fat you had to spend an hour on a cardio machine, as often as possible.
Those were some boring times…
But since then the science of fat loss has improved and one single reigning king of workouts has taken the throne…
The king of all workouts is: Strength Training
What qualifies as strength training?
In order to get all of the amazing benefits of strength training, you must do weight lifting exercise with resistance (like dumbbells, barbells, kettlebells) that you cannot do for more than 12 repetitions in a set.
By being limited to only 12 repetitions because of the resistance, your body gets incredible lean muscle building, cardio and core strengthening benefits; all in a single workout.
Now of course you wouldn’t only do 12 repetitions every time. This example is used to demonstrate that if you’re trying to do “a lot of repetitions to tone up”, you’re likely not getting the real benefits of strength training.
This is how our most successful clients get such incredible results – by picking the right weights.
Before you start trying to add more weights to your workouts, make sure you consult a fitness professional to ensure your form and technique is safe and effective.
I know this is not going to be easy for most of you and it has to start with changing your mindset. Just so we are clear I am not saying to quit doing cardio but don’t make that your sole focus every time you work out.
To start off let’s say you are working out 3x a week. For the first week just add one day where you do 1 day of strength training and 2 days of cardio. From there switch it the second week and do 2 days of strength and 1 of cardio.
Once you have completed the first two weeks of this you can continue to flip each week or add another day to your routine so eventually you are doing at least 2 days of strength and 2 days of cardio each week. If you really want to push the envelope get to the point where you are doing 3 days of strength training and 3 days of cardio with one day of rest.
If you need some sample workouts you can do at home you can download my “7 At Home Workouts” right here.
P.S. Fat Loss Law #7 is something you can only live without doing for 4 days otherwise you may no longer be living!
As I mentioned at the end of yesterday’s post, today’s fat loss law can really pay big dividends. I first learned about this right after college and it was how to use this law for money. However, it applies to weight loss as well.
Let’s dive into today’s fat loss law!
Small Consistent Steps Turn Into Big Positive Changes
One of my favorite books is The Compound Effect by Dan Hardy. In it, Dan describes how little, everyday decisions will either take you to the life you desire or to disaster by default.
Those small baby steps add up to a lot over time!
Consequently, the bad habits you keep, even if small, will add up to a big negative snowball when you do it for 1, 2, 5, 10 years.
The Compound Effect has much greater benefits than just adding up small actions.
Let’s say you commit to doing 5 minutes of exercise, every day… 5 minutes is such a small, insignificant amount of time that it’s silly not to be able to make yourself do it right?
Well once you start your 5 minutes and have gotten past the part of getting started, your brain is much more likely to want to keep going since you’ve gotten a little momentum going.
That means your planned 5 minutes will usually turn into 15+ minutes. All without the internal resistance that usually keeps you on the couch.
And if you actually only do the 5 minutes you initially committed to, you’re still ahead of the game and get a gold star for the day.
If you have struggled in the past to stay motivated, try using the Compound Effect. It’ll get you back on track and on the way to your goals.
“Even if you’re taking baby steps, you’re still lapping the people on the couch!”
If you are ready to get started and really want to apply the law of compounding I want to offer you up the “6 Day Stronger Core Challenge!” Start with this six day challenge and then continue to progress to a more advanced workout once you have completed it.
You can take the challenge by joining here
Tomorrow’s law is an answer to a question I get asked all the time! Follow this law on a regular basis and you will be benefiting from it even when you are not working out!
As you can start to see it is not rocket science. Setting yourself up for successful fat loss comes down to changing daily habits. In yesterday’s post I hope you saw the value of sleep and the affect on fat loss.
So what is fat loss #4 all about? Make sure you read this more than once and actually apply it!
Out Exercising A Bad Diet Is An Uphill Battle
You’ve probably heard the phrase, “You can’t outwork a bad diet.”…
Depending on your metabolism, genetics, age and activity level, you actually can outwork a bad diet…
But it’s an uphill battle!
When it comes to attaining success, in any arena, your best bet is to follow the path of least resistance. Doesn’t that make more sense than purposefully making things more difficult for yourself?
If you’re currently working out and still binging on junk food you KNOW are not serving your goals, your chances of being successful drop by 90%. How does that sound?
Here is how to never sabotage yourself with bad foods again:
“Plan, schedule and prepare for sticking to your nutrition program first, before you plan anything else. First add your healthy meals and workout time into your schedule, then comes everything else!”
That means put your meals into your schedule so you know when you’re next meal is coming.
Prepare all of your healthy meals on Sunday and package them in containers to save you time and thinking.
And if you have a meeting or have to eat out, decide what you’re going to order before you arrive.
As the saying goes, ” If you fail to plan then you are planning to fail!”
Don’t let laziness and failure to plan ahead be the reason you do not see rapid fat loss.
I know I keep repeating myself here but the next fat loss law is really powerful and leads to massive transformation over time.
I would love to hear how things are going. Also, if you want to get a jump start on your fat loss I put together a “7 Day Jump Start” plan you can use to get you started. You can get it here
I know yesterday’s post may not have had the sizzle you were looking for when it comes to accelerating your fat loss and your weight- loss journey but it really can make a difference. Especially if you plan on being active for a long time and preventing yourself from getting injured. Also, if you have not already set your SMART goals, like we talked about in Fat Loss Law #1. Go back and read that post and set your goals.
Alright, so now let’s present fat loss law #3 to you.
Fat Loss Law #3 “You Need To Get Enough Sleep If You Ever Want To See Your Abs”
There’s a saying: lean bodies are built in the gym and kitchen. And although you need to follow a proper nutrition and exercise regimen… if you don’t allow your body to recover, you’re going to set your results back up to 50%.
Well, anytime we undergo any type of stress like working out, pulling an all nighter or helping a friend move heavy furniture; the insides of our bodies end up looking like a Walmart after a black Friday sale (cellularly speaking)!
It’s only during our sleep cycles that our cells are able to clean up the mess, rebalance our hormones, sweep up our digestion system and build new cells (like skin, hair, nails and muscles).
When we don’t give our bodies enough time to recover and repair, we actually end up with greater stress hormone levels (cortisone) and inflammation – causing diseases, weight gain and extremely low energy levels.
Hormonal imbalance and inflammation are the root of all illnesses such as cancers, diabetes, high blood pressure and heart disease… Scary stuff to look forward to if you neglect your health.
I used to give a stress management lecture and one question I would always ask the group to raise their hands and keep them raised as I called out how many hours of sleep they typically get a night. I would start with 4 hours and everyones hand stayed raised. Then I would say 5 and still pretty much everyone had their hand raised. But when I called out 6 hours a night half the room lowered their hand. By the time I got to 8 most everyone lowered their hand and maybe one or two people still had their hand raised. It was really said to see but it goes pretty much with what is happening in our society today. We are sleep deprived and in my opinion a good reason for most of our problems can be traced back to lack of sleep.
Getting more sleep is the simplest way to not only improve your health but also contribute to a shrinking waist size! If you want to change start by getting more sleep!
In the next post you will learn the law that is 90% of the battle.
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Welcome to day two of the 21 Laws of Fat Loss. In yesterday’s post I introduced you to the first law. I hope you took action and set up some SMART goals. If not, go back and read about Fat Loss Law 1 “You Must Have Crystal Clear Goals” and then post it in the Free Facebook Group (www.allabouthealthandfitness.com).
Now, let’s introduce you to today’s fat loss law.
Fat Loss Law #2 How You Do The Exercise (form) Is More Important Than What Exercise
You Are Doing
Yes, absolutely. But what you risk by not taking the time to learn good form is a sidelining injury.
Besides not getting results, the 2nd most common reason people quit their fitness program’s is they suffer an injury that requires them to stop working out.
And when an injury like this occurs, most people’s healthy eating regimen also goes out the window.
So what’s the best way to learn good form and avoid debilitating injuries?
Getting the right help.
Working with a skilled fitness professional will not only ensure you develop great form when exercising, they’ll also prescribe the best workout routine to help you reach your goals as quickly as possible.
If you’ve never worked with a fitness professional before, don’t worry, most have packages to meet your needs and budget.
You wouldn’t try doing your own dental work to avoid the cost would you?
Of course not, so don’t put your body at risk if you know you need the help.
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Now that we have fat loss #2 out of the way we can move to the next law, which has been proven to be one of the most important components to losing weight. And, it is something you can easily do.
The 21 Laws of Fat Loss is a compilation of the top 21 rules that will govern your results. This list is not conclusive and is not presented in any particular order. It is my goal to provide you these 21 laws over the next 21 days.
The Laws presented to you are the very same habits and actions that are responsible for helping thousands of others, just like you, completely revamp their bodies and change their lives.
What you will notice most, when reading through the 21 Laws Of Fat Loss is that much of the advice counters what you’ve always believed.
The purpose of this book was never to debunk myths and beliefs… The purpose is to just give it to you straight, without any fluff.
You have to realize that the fitness industry is enormous and growing month by month. And because people are spending money trying to improve their health and fitness, there are a lot of ‘charlatans and snake oil salesmen’ that use pseudoscience and misinformation to sell you their products and programs.
It’s my goal to give you the straight answers. Not my opinion. Not some made up science. But real facts as we know them today. Of course as time passes and science advances, it’s possible that the Laws Of Fat Loss may need changing to. But for now, each day, for the next 21 days, I will post a law that will get you the results you want… all you have to do is follow them.
Fat Loss Law #1 You Must Have Crystal Clear Goals
The most common reason for people not reaching their desired destination is… they don’t really know where they’re going.
Seems kinda obvious right?
“But isn’t wanting to lose weight a goal?”
Kinda, but not really…
Imagine you wanted to leave your house and go visit a friend in the next town and all you had was the name of the street they lived on. No house number. No cross streets. No point of reference. No signs knowing if you went too far.
You’d never get there right? You may come close, by accident. But arrive at your desired location; nope.
This is exactly what happens if you don’t set clear goals.
What does a clear goal look like?
Here’s an example of a clear goal:
I want to be a size 6 and fit into my favorite jeans and feel comfortable and confident wearing them by February 1st, 2017.
You see how specific and measurable it needs to be? If this was one of your goals, you could try them on at the end of each week and see your progress.
Try setting your own SMART goals. Remember the acronym SMART stands for:
One more thing I want to add to this is really focus on the time frame. Around last year (early 2016) I came across a book called, “The 12 Week Year,” which really changed how I approach goal setting. Instead of saying,” I want to lose 10 lbs and weigh ___ by Dec 31st (insert end of year) I know focus my goal setting in a 12 week or 90 day time period.
Once you have your goals share them with me and others so we can help keep you accountable. You can do that by doing our group www.allabouthealthandfitness.com.
Tomorrow I will share with you Fat Loss Law #2. If you neglect this law it could really set you back on your fat loss journey!
By now you are probably aware that the term, eat clean, has nothing to do with washing your food and has everything to do with eating in a way that promotes fat loss.
While it may sound simple enough, it’s pretty challenging to stick with a clean eating plan. I suppose if it were easy then everyone would be lean and confident about their body.
So what is the secret to long-term, clean eating success?
In this episode of the “Fit Over 40 Challenge” show I outline and give you 4 secrets to doing just that.
You can listen below or download to your phone from iTunes.
If you want to get a jump start to eating clean you can join the “7 Day Jump Start For Fat Loss” here